When we are facing a troubled marriage heading towards divorce we do a lot of silly things. Panic can set in and our judgement can become clouded leading to many problems. One important divorce stopping tip you should be aware of that will come in handy to avoid plunging this delicate situation even further into hot water is this:
Don't Try To Romance Your Relationship Back to Good Health
That right, all the romantic things you used to do are not going to cut it when you are in SERIOUS relationship troubles because lack of romance is probably not the major issue here. Also it SCREAMS desperation when you are throwing flowers, foot rubs, romantic dinners, sexual favours, and other things at your disgruntled spouse. This will feel really fake and over the top when just a little while ago these things were probably not in abundance.
Instead you need to really understand the root causes of their marital discord and work on that first. Romance will come later and feel more natural if you get the real basic marital needs working first and actions speak louder than words in this regard.
So leave the romancing out for a little while and start to really communicate and act on those exchanges without anger, resentment, or fear. This will bring you back to a stead marriage faster than surprise flowers or other equivalents.
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Friday, August 13, 2010
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